Now comes the important task of recognizing and processing through your emotions so you can relocate to Portugal effectively. Hopefully, with more physical baggage than emotional baggage to carry with you.
I Get So Emotional, Baby
As Whitney Houston sang, “I get so emotional, baby.” This sentiment definitely applies when you have made the decision to relocate to Portugal, or any other, different country.
Questions
Even though you are filled with excitement and anticipation and oh-so-many to-do lists, there is the emotional processing that needs to happen. It’s the questioning, doubting, and reconfirmation of your decision over and over again. If you’re anything like me, this process will come up several times over the course of your preparation to relocate to Portugal.
Telling Loved Ones
don’t let them pop your dream balloon
You know what they say, don’t tell anyone your idea until it has been fully formed and you can support and defend your decisions. Because, for some people, if they can pop a hole in your dream balloon, they most certainly will. This is true when you decide to relocate to Portugal as well.
Inevitably there’s comes the time you need to begin to tell family and friends. This doesn’t always go well.
Some will really miss you being close enough to easily visit. They’ll tell you that you’ll be a whole wide world away. Others will take it as some kind of judgment against their own personal decisions to remain. They might complain about their situation, wish it could be vastly different, but will never take the first steps to make an real impact.
Undoubtedly they’ll have their own questions, doubts, and concerns related to your move. Some of these you will value and give credence to more than others. All these doubts will likely come up for you once more, forcing you to confront these questions all over again.
Some people will be happy you have made the decision to make a difference in your life. Others may selfishly wish you were still around the corner.
Get Some Help
As with your move, you likely are employing professionals to assist you. These might include relocation assistants such as EIMigrante, shipping companies, lawyers to review your lease or purchase agreement, animal transport services, door-to-door couriers, and many more.
Now is not the time to skimp out on the professional, mental assistance you might need. If you’re not already seeing a therapist, this could be a good time to start. You’re probably dealing with some pretty heavy emotions.